Nearly 40% of couples make the decision to divorce at some point. And divorce is painful, because you obviously didn't intend it that way when you got married… A lot has to be arranged with a divorce, which is why professional legal help is an absolute must. Some things to consider:
Lawyer or mediator?
Do you have a fight with your partner? Then both look for someone who represents your interests. Will you work it out together? In that case, the help of a divorce mediator will suffice. Such a mediator indicates which matters are important in a divorce and advises on the options. Think of alimony, parenting plans, owner-occupied homes, pensions, and so on. Look for a divorce mediator with an understanding of tax, financial and legal matters.
Divorce this year? Take into account a change in partner alimony from 2020
During Budget Day last month, a change was announced in the partner alimony law. This provides that in most cases spousal alimony only needs to be paid for five years, instead of 12 years. Many people who want a divorce will therefore wait until 2020.
Take enough time
You want to get on with your life as soon as possible after your divorce. Everyone understands that. But nevertheless, take enough time to properly arrange your divorce. Divorce now prevents hassle at a later time. A good mediator can guide you in this and ensures that all agreements made are laid down clearly and in accordance with rules and laws in a covenant and any parenting plan.
As you can see, many things are important in a divorce. It is difficult to have to talk to each other often and over and over during an emotional period. But again:take the time now for good agreements, then you can continue with your life carefree afterwards. Without bad consequences in the future. That gives a good feeling and is an absolute must!
